Tools to Control Runaway Emotions
Tantrums at all ages? Parents often don’t know what to do when a child throws a tantrum and won’t stop. The emotions are in charge, of course, and sometimes even
Continue readingTantrums at all ages? Parents often don’t know what to do when a child throws a tantrum and won’t stop. The emotions are in charge, of course, and sometimes even
Continue readingStress tests our emotional intelligence (or unintelligence). It acts as a trigger for our emotions and asks, “How are you going to handle this?” Stress is not the problem. How
Continue readingIn addition (to knowing our tools), we must learn how to use our tools for building intelligent emotions (emotional intelligence)? It would be laborious to show you all the ways
Continue readingWherever possible, I have chosen to use friendly, open-ended questions that will direct our attention to the root causes of emotional trouble and help us choose the right tool. We
Continue reading“Where are my tools?” yelled the frustrated repairman. Such a situation can be critical because without tools we struggle and can be helpless. In fact, tools for mental tasks are just
Continue readingSome people think that the goal of emotional intelligence is balance. Keep everything in moderation, they say — your anger, fear, hope, and love (to name a few candidates for
Continue readingWhat would you like to know about emotional intelligence? A great place to start is with your relationship with your emotions. Perhaps you would describe your relationship with emotions as
Continue readingWe have addressed the importance of our mind’s health and best functioning. Additionally, let’s now direct our thoughts to an area that both affects the mind and is affected by
Continue readingAs we have found, cognition is not enough in this life. This is especially true in the sensitive world of relationships. Emotional intelligence is not limited to the ability to
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