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		<title>Urgency Dominates the &#8220;J&#8221; Lifestyle</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<img src="https://raywlincoln.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Urgency-Dominates.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="Urgency Dominates" style="display: block; margin-bottom: 5px; clear:both;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" fetchpriority="high" srcset="https://raywlincoln.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Urgency-Dominates.png 253w, https://raywlincoln.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Urgency-Dominates-100x100.png 100w, https://raywlincoln.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Urgency-Dominates-150x150.png 150w, https://raywlincoln.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Urgency-Dominates-210x210.png 210w" sizes="(max-width: 253px) 100vw, 253px" /><p>The feeling of urgency dominates the J&#8217;s world. Let’s do it now! Therefore, the J fears the unfinished task and having the unfinished tasks back up to produce anxiety.  A need to achieve, a sense of pride in work accomplished, the treasured sense of relief when they have made progress — all these feed this urgency.  Further, the strong desire to be on time so as to avoid further stress feeds this urgency. When Urgency Dominates Too Much The J can easily overdo these drives. And when they do, it creates tension, high blood pressure, and other issues, all of which raise the level of emotional strain.  Consequently we see emotions easily in this lifestyle. Accordingly, too much emotional pressure can drive the J prematurely to anger. It is often the anger of a threatened lifestyle. With a Sense of Urgency, More Is Achieved The emotions of the J lifestyle seem to surge in the direction of achievement and getting all the tasks of life done. But they find peace in the completing all the needed details.  However,  this also means the J may only realize peace in a structured life where that structure takes its place alongside of all the other urgent demands. &#160; My hope is that this book will lead you, as its content has led many others, to be intelligently emotional. If it helps you to develop the intelligent use of your emotions and a rewarding lifestyle, my labor will not have been in vain.  You can access it HERE.  If you are subscribed to our weekly updates, our next issue will provide a link to purchase it with a 15% discount and free shipping. &#160; &#160; DISCOVER THE TRUTH OF WHO YOU ARE! Lean into the whole truth.  Discover the truth of who YOU are — the “Real You” — and who your children truly are.  Discover how to best engage your children in finding the whole truth.  INNERKINETICS, Your Blueprint to Excellence and Happiness, is a great resource. Our team at InnerKinetics is ready to provide that help, too.  If you’d like some assistance, you can request a consultation.  An InnerKinetics consultant will call you to answer questions and schedule your meeting. Schedule an Initial Consultation. If you are more independent and want to cut to the chase, you need not wait for a call back because you can get answers to your questions and schedule your session HERE.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://raywlincoln.com/personal-development/urgency-dominates-the-j-lifestyle/">Urgency Dominates the &#8220;J&#8221; Lifestyle</a> appeared first on <a href="https://raywlincoln.com">RayWLincoln.com</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://raywlincoln.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Urgency-Dominates.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="Urgency Dominates" style="display: block; margin-bottom: 5px; clear:both;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" loading="lazy" srcset="https://raywlincoln.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Urgency-Dominates.png 253w, https://raywlincoln.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Urgency-Dominates-100x100.png 100w, https://raywlincoln.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Urgency-Dominates-150x150.png 150w, https://raywlincoln.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Urgency-Dominates-210x210.png 210w" sizes="(max-width: 253px) 100vw, 253px" /><p>The feeling of urgency dominates the J&#8217;s world. Let’s do it now! Therefore, the J fears the unfinished task and having the unfinished tasks back up to produce anxiety.  A need to achieve, a sense of pride in work accomplished, the treasured sense of relief when they have made progress — all these feed this urgency.  Further, the strong desire to be on time so as to avoid further stress feeds this urgency.</p>
<h3>When Urgency Dominates Too Much</h3>
<p>The J can easily overdo these drives. And when they do, it creates tension, high blood pressure, and other issues, all of which raise the level of emotional strain.  Consequently we see emotions easily in this lifestyle. Accordingly, too much emotional pressure can drive the J prematurely to anger. It is often the anger of a threatened lifestyle.</p>
<h3>With a Sense of Urgency, More Is Achieved</h3>
<p>The emotions of the J lifestyle seem to surge in the direction of <a href="https://innerkinetics.com/lifestyle-2/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">achievement</a> and getting all the tasks of life done. But they find peace in the completing all the needed details.  However,  this also means the J may only realize peace in a structured life where that structure takes its place alongside of all the other urgent demands.</p>
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<p data-reader-unique-id="57">Lean into the whole truth.  Discover the truth of <a href="https://raywlincoln.com/temperament-key/#/intro" target="_blank" rel="noopener">who YOU are</a> — the “Real You” — and who your children truly are.  Discover how to best engage your children in finding the whole truth.  <a href="https://raywlincoln.com/product/innerkinetics-book/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>INNERKINETICS, Your Blueprint to Excellence and Happiness</em></a>, is a great resource.</p>
<p data-reader-unique-id="58">Our team at InnerKinetics is ready to provide that help, too.  If you’d like some assistance, you can request a consultation.  An InnerKinetics consultant will call you to answer questions and schedule your meeting. <a href="https://raywlincoln.lpages.co/oi-initial-consultation-request" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-reader-unique-id="59"><span data-reader-unique-id="60"><b data-reader-unique-id="61">Schedule an Initial Consultation</b></span></a>. If you are more independent and want to cut to the chase, you need not wait for a call back because you can get answers to your questions and schedule your session <a href="https://raywlincoln.as.me/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-reader-unique-id="62"><span data-reader-unique-id="63">HERE</span></a>.</p>
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