Do You Fear Knowing Yourself?
The fear abates: “Oh what a relief!” InnerKinetics® consultants hear that all the time. “I always wondered why I was so impulsive,” say some clients; “… so sensitive,” say others;
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How to Discover Your Preferences
In previous articles, we have discussed the importance of understanding our individual design and the importance played by our preferences in determining that design, while acknowledging the impact our design
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Our Preferences – InnerKinetics – Shape Us
We are aware now that our InnerKinetics are a primary influence in our relationships. Why is that? How do our preferences – InnerKinetics – affect us so that our relationships are
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Self-Understanding Step 1: How Are We Designed?
Self-understanding requires a few basic steps. The first and most crucial is to consider our design Are people different from each other? Of course. Your partner or child is
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Leadership Requires Communication Artistry
Do people listen to you willingly? Do they follow your leadership? If they don’t, you are not leading — at least not effectively. Whether our leadership role is in our
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Two Conflict Conquerers: Think Straight and Understand
When you and your partner are in a situation of conflict, has it ever seemed to you that the person you are married to is not the person you were
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Are You In Control? 5 Steps to Quickly Calm Our Emotions
To calm our emotions isn’t easy or everyone would be doing it! This is a question that very much needs an answer — and it is not just for those
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Marriage Goals – Begin Your Marriage at the End
Bobby Fischer astounded the world of chess. When playing for the World Championship in 1971, he achieved the first shutout in Grand Master play. He finally beat Boris Spassky for
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Belief, The Great Motivator
When we think of motivation, we usually think of providing what interests, excites, attracts, or might please ourselves or others. And when we try to keep supplying these external things,
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